The Authentic Motivator

Hello everyone!

When I first found out I was pregnant, it was a surreal moment. I remember being home alone, taking the test and asking myself, “Why are you even doing this?” Just last month (May 2025), the doctor had told me that I couldn’t conceive naturally. So, I never in a million years thought I would be here. But alas, I took the test, and there it was +positive. Not only was I pregnant, but it happened naturally. Truly, all is in God’s timing. To all the incredible women on the journey to conceive, I want to share that my own experience was a long and winding road. Trust in your process each step you take is part of a beautiful journey. Embrace every moment, and hold on to hope, for your time will always arrive at the perfect moment. Your strength and resilience are truly inspiring, and every challenge you face is shaping your story. Keep faith in what lies ahead!

Here we are today, 7 months later, and I remain in a surreal place when it comes to this beautiful miracle growing inside of me. I have always been a firm believer in my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, but this experience has ignited a fire in my spirit for Christ like never before, it is like an atomic bomb of faith went off in me! Seriously, if I could bottle this energy, I could power a small city! Laughter aside, this journey has been long but deeply rewarding.

As I celebrate this incredible milestone, I feel an overwhelming mix of excitement and a sprinkle of anxiety. Each day brings me closer to meeting my little one, and while I can’t wait, I also feel the natural nerves that accompany such a significant life change. I’m dedicated to reminding myself to embrace positive thoughts and cultivate a peaceful mindset during this special time.

Throughout this journey, I’ve experienced some notable physical changes. Gaining 35 pounds was initially a bit overwhelming, but I constantly remind myself that I’m nurturing a precious life. Staying active is a core value for me. I have made it my mission to walk regularly, and I recently purchased a yoga ball that I use for stretching every day. Mobility and strength helps me feel strong both physically and emotionally. I work out three days a week with my personal trainer and remain mindful of my nutrition, especially my salt and sugar intake. Balance is key!

In preparation for the baby’s arrival, I’ve immersed myself in activities that bring me joy. I’ve purchased adorable baby clothes, planned my Houston baby shower, and created a detailed list of tasks to tackle before the big day. It’s both exciting and a bit surreal! I am a huge planner so doing these things bring me joy. No wonder I run operations for a living.

One of the most significant aspects of my preparation has been enlisting the support of a doula. For those who may not know, a doula is a trained professional who provides continuous physical, emotional, and informational support to a mother before, during, and shortly after childbirth. Having both a birth doula and a postpartum doula is important to me because I want to ensure my birthing experience is filled with pure positive energy. I believe that creating a nurturing environment is vital when welcoming my child into the world.

I’m also exploring hypnobirthing, which emphasizes relaxation, mindfulness, and visualization techniques during labor. This approach resonates with me as it aligns with my natural inclination towards positivity and calmness. I yearn for my birthing space to be filled with peaceful energy, allowing me to connect deeply with my baby and myself during this transformative experience.

As I prepare to take on the role of a mother, I’m also mindful of my current career in the C-Suite. It’s essential for me to stay in touch with my identity while balancing this new chapter. I want to ensure that I can provide my precious child with unconditional love and support while maintaining a structured routine. These thoughts constantly swirl in my mind as I prepare to welcome my little one in the weeks ahead. It’s a role I am so excited for and can’t wait to learn along the way.

With each passing day, I feel closer to meeting my child, and for that, I am immensely grateful. This opportunity is truly a blessing from God, and I deeply appreciate the strength that life has taught me. I firmly believe that I can do all things through Christ, and this belief empowers me as I embark on this new journey.

To all the expectant mothers and new parents reading this, my biggest piece of advice is to practice positive affirmations and lean on your support system. Whether it’s family, doulas, or friends, don’t hesitate to reach out and share your journey. Remember, cultivating positivity is not just about improving our mood; it has profound effects on our physical health, particularly during pregnancy and childbirth. Embracing a positive mindset can help reduce stress levels, improve overall well-being, and enhance coping skills, leading to better birth outcomes. By nurturing positivity, we create a supportive environment for ourselves and our babies, helping them face challenges with resilience and grace.

Thank you for being part of my story!

I will do my best to write more and check in to share my experience along with others!❤️